Communicate

To tell the truth, I do really think that people nowadays don't really know how to communicate with other people especially between parents and their children. I wonder why parents always blame their children for not telling them anything since they don't really spend their time communicate with their children? Most of my friends are having communication problem with their parents because they are always busy with their work and most of the time they are not at home, even they seldom spent their time with their children during weekends.

In my own case, I do really have a big communication problem with my parents. I don't really talk to my parents about my thoughts, because for most of the time they won't understand even they won't listen to me. Sometimes, they would just stopped me or straight away scolded me, even sometimes they would rather just walked away and not listen to me. Is that really hard for them to just stay and listen until I finish what I wanted to say? Is that really hard for them to talk with me instead of scolding or yelling? Is that really hard for them to consider my situation before they stand for their opinion? And I wonder why they can just throw their temper towards me when I did nothing wrong, can't they talk politely when they're requesting for something? Yelling don't make you feel good, no?

Perhaps I was wrong sometimes, I'm not the God I've my own weaknesses, everyone has their own weaknesses too, no? For so many times, I've tried to talk to them but their response made me disappointed again and again. I'm afraid to talk to them now, I hate the face they always show to me when I've something to tell them, I hate the feeling of not getting any response from them when I try to tell them what happened on me, I even hate the way when a conversation ends in the silence. Since years ago, I don't really talk to them face to face, I'd rather text them or leave a note for them to avoid an argument.

Any suggestions of how to communicate with parents? Share it with me.